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And Then I Got Sick

5/31/2018

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Submitted by Zoe Withers
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"It turned out to be a good opportunity for our kids ..."
I had so many plans, but they all went by the wayside when I got sick (and I mean really sick) recently. As a co-founder at ThinkBaby.org, I regularily devote time to writing and cultivating articles for our readers on a wide variety of topics related to children including baby gear, feeding babies, and recipes. Readers appreciate that we provide thoughts about a lot of things which you can see when you scan some of our most recent stories which included thoughts on things like healthy toddler sleep habits, toddler play, and comparing free-style vs. forced parenting. 

Being sick was no fun, and I hope I'm never that sick again, but some unexpected good did come from it. 

​It turned out to be a good opportunity for our kids to bond and interact with both sets of grandparents who were nice enough to swoop in and take care of them whilst I was completely out of action, and my husband was working. I'm grateful that they were willing to keep our house together and our kids fed, bathed, nurtured and loved during the last weeks.  

Thankfully I'm feeling great again and am back at it; managing the kids, the house, the web site, and the work. Check out my latest story:  
Infertility & TTC: Why Self-Love is the Most Important Thing.
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Zoe Withers is a mother, wife, and co-founder of ThinkBaby.org. She is also an author and bookkeeper.
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His Big Heart

5/21/2018

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Submitted by "Mom2Boys" 
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"It made my mom heart want to burst ..."
I am not the mom who cries when dropping her kids off, but today, as I prepared to return to work after completing my parental leave, was a little different. Our baby had his first day at school with his “experienced” big brother.

I can't begin to tell you how much we absolutely love our kids’ teachers, which is why I was positive I wouldn't cry when I put them in such good hands. I was doing well, dry eyes and everything, until I turned to walk out of the infant room and saw my older son's concern for his little brother; he was peering through a window checking on his baby brother as I left the room. His big heart was so obvious, and I could see him caring about and being protective of his little brother. It made my mom heart want to burst, but instead my eyes welled with tears.
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Later their teachers let me know that my older son insisted on visiting his baby brother multiple times throughout the day just to make sure he was adjusting well. I can’t imagine loving these boys any more and appreciate their caring teachers so much!
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"Mom2Boys" is a mother, wife, and global product manager at a high tech company. She earned an MBA degree at university in the United States.
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Returns and Routines

5/19/2018

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Most kids need routine. Be sure to establish them before heading back to work after an extended leave.
If you're planning to re-enter the workforce after an extended break, and you have kids that aren't newborns, it might help to consider the change from their point of view. Most kids find comfort in routine, so at least starting to establish a new routine, before you actually start the job, is likely to make the transition easier on everyone.

Think ahead. Chances are that you will need your kids to do more for themselves if you're going back to work. Asking them to take on more responsibilities around the house is great for them, and it should help you too.

The key to a smooth transition is to be sure that your kids have taken on these new responsibilities before your first day on the job. Even relatively compliant kids will need "practice" before new routines run smoothly. We found that our kids usually threw three "fits" in a row when we imposed new routines on them. If we could endure those "fits" (which usually were just complaints, whines or worse), and stay firm (and consistent), the new routine tended to click by the fourth iteration and the kids often became enthusiasts. Maybe we're all that way :)

Here are ideas for things most kids can be expected to take on around the house. Obviously their ability to take on various responsibilities will vary widely based on their ages.
  • Dress themselves
    (Layout their clothes the night before. Or, some parents admit that they put their toddlers to bed in the next day's outfit.)
  • Get their own breakfast
  • Pack a school lunch
  • Help with dinner
  • Get their own snacks
  • Vacuum, dust and/or prep for cleaning help (you may need it!)
  • Feed, walk, and/or clean up after the pet(s)
  • Do their own laundry
  • Take out the trash
  • Help in the yard
  • ​Let you sleep in on the weekends!

Most kids are happy to help when they know that their contributions are meaningful; it gives them a great sense of accomplishment and helps build lasting self-esteem. This means that while they're taking on a new responsibility you need to be sure you're not hovering over them, offering too many suggestions, and/or criticizing their efforts. Let them make a few mistakes! Keep yourself busy doing something else meaningful while they tackle their new "jobs".

An important key to success is to be sure that your kids don't view your return to work as an imposition on their routines or a punishment. By establishing new routines before your return, you're likely to ease the transition for everyone and discover how your work actually helps your kids become more capable adults in the future.

Good luck!
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Are YouR Kids TOO BUSY?

5/16/2018

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Pointer to research results published by ScienceDaily
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The growing demand for children to get involved in organized activities outside of school is placing unprecedented strain upon families.
When our kids were in school, we knew a couple who were highly respected parents. Imagine my thrill when I learned that they limited their very smart and very talented son to two (or was it three?) extracurricular activities at a time. While other parents were bragging about the hours they spent shuttling their kids from activity to activity, these parents confidently let people know that they thought some reasonable limits were best for their son.

Their confidence set the example I needed to let go of any concern I had that my own kids might be falling behind because they weren't overbooked and in constant motion. It was really helpful and comforting information during a time that I needed more help and comfort!

If you would appreciate knowing that your kids don't need to be booked 24/7, look no further than this article published by ScienceDaily: Are your children overdoing it? Too many extracurricular activities can do more harm than good. It summarizes results from a small study in England and points out that "a busy organized activity schedule can ... potentially harm children's development and wellbeing." It may provide the info working parents need to better manage their time and protect their sanity.
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ScienceDaily is one of the Internet’s most popular science news web sites.
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Originally Published: May16, 2018 | Last Updated: Jun 11, 2018
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Her Example and Dedication

5/15/2018

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Submitted by Britt Larsen
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Britt and her mom
​"My mom has a talent for recognizing talent in others."
Growing up, I always knew my mom was different. When my older sister was young, my mom started an after school music program. For over 30 years she ran the Colorado Academy of the Arts, and over those years, she taught hundreds of children and adults to love and appreciate musical theater. Sometimes I got frustrated because my mom was busy, but as an adult, I realize that her example and dedication is one of the reasons I am successful in my own career now. 
 
My mom has a talent for recognizing talent in others, especially in people who don't think they are artistic. She is a master at casting people in roles that they may not have imagined for themselves. I will forever be thankful that she followed her passion and ignited that passion in every person she taught. 
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Britt Larsen is an experienced communications professional who created the livlyhood web site, a community for women who work. She holds a BA degree in communications and broadcast journalism from Brigham Young University.
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  • The "Best Mom"
  • Benefits of a Working Mom
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Stories about Mothers

5/12/2018

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"There is no way to be a perfect mother and a million ways to be a good one."
-- Jill Churchill
The approach of Mother's Day provides a great excuse to highlight some of the stories we've published about mothers over the last year.
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Mom's Work

"[My] mom's working shaped my attitude for what women could ​and should be able to do."
​-- Bruce Lundeby  ​
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The "Best Mom"

​Insights from an 11-year-old daughter
by Tina Schmiedel
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Speaking of Business Travel

"Gotta play the long game here." 
​-- Anne McClain

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Benefits of a Working Mom

"I talked to grown-up children who were raised by working mothers." 
-- Pamela F. Lenehan
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What Can I Do About It?

​When it comes to the gender pay gap,  you probably have more power than you think.
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Working Parenthood: A Retrospective

​​"Nothing has a stronger influence psychologically on children than the unlived life of the parent." 
​-- Carl Jung
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When in Rome

5/8/2018

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Submitted by Kathy Haselmaier
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Work experiences often make us better parents.
Work required me to travel internationally on occasion. I usually viewed these trips as sacrifices since they took me away from my family along with being tiring, if not exhausting. Once I made it to the airport, I usually appreciated the change in routine, and once I made it to the hotel, I usually appreciated the opportunities to meet new people, see new things, and discuss new ideas. 

But I rarely took any extra time to explore the area on my own after the business was complete. Instead, I felt compelled to get back to my family and "be there" for them ASAP. (It occurs to me that this sounds downright crazy as I write it so many years later.) Thankfully, there was one time when a colleague and I decided to take an extra day to explore Rome on our own. 

Thanks to this fun, flexible and very accommodating colleague, I had a great day as we explored the city. In fact, it was so great that I vowed to return "soon" with my husband and kids (14 and 9) so that they could explore these wonders too.

Thirteen months later, the four of us were sitting on a plane heading to Rome where we experienced, what later became known as, "the best vacation". 

Work experiences often make us better parents. And sometimes we need to indulge ourselves in order to understand how to leverage those experiences so that they benefit the whole family.
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​Kathy Haselmaier is a mother, wife, and the editor of Working Parent Stories. She and her husband worked full-time while raising their children. Kathy worked in high tech marketing and business operations roles, and holds a BS degree in Computer Science from Michigan Tech.
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