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Running My Own Race

11/9/2017

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Submitted by ​Sherene Abrahams - "I've let go of the idea that I need to be just like everyone else."
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"I've let go of the idea that I need to be just like everyone else."
Before my children were born, I assumed that I wouldn't work outside the home after they came along. I figured that a part-time work schedule wouldn't be an option, and I didn't want to work full-time.

But things don't always go according to plan. When my eldest was 9-months-old, I was given the opportunity to return to work on a part-time basis. I was told that I could work from the office two days/week and from home one day/week. I accepted the offer, held the job for five years, and even had another baby during that time.

When my eldest started school, I was ready to make my career a higher priority. By that time I could do my job with my eyes closed. It was easy and convenient for me as a working parent. But it was no longer challenging.

I found a new job that sounded perfect; there were shorter hours, it was closer to home, and it was a step up on the career ladder. Unfortunately, it didn't go as well as I hoped it would because it just wasn't a great fit for my skills. But luckily, after nine months on the job, I found and landed my dream role. It was closer to home, super flexible, and involved work that I love.

While it took some adjusting to find the right fit, I'm happy to report that I've found it and am balancing my roles at home and at work. Here's how I do it. 
  • Let go of the idea that I need to be just like everyone else. I've accepted that it's OK to run my own race.
  • Outsource work at home that doesn't benefit from my personal touch (e.g. cleaning, laundry, gardening).
  • Maintain friendships with a great tribe (e.g. people who are willing to ponder life over a coffee).
  • Prioritize exercise to help unwind, stay healthy, and catch up on Netflix! (I get 30 minutes of exercise/day.) 
  • Avoid over-scheduling. Our kids are limited to two extra-curricular activities/week. This is for their sake and ours too!
  • Use online resources for meal planning and grocery shopping. Thinking about what to have for dinner each night is an additional stress I don't need in my life.
  • Take vacations! We are not made to work 100% of the time. Vacations provide an opportunity to recharge, give my mind and body some downtime, reconnect with loved ones, and remember that there is more to life than work and home.

In an attempt to help other working parents, I created The Working Parents Hubshub. This site, which currently serves parents in Australia and New Zealand, helps working parents find services they can use to achieve better balance between their families and their careers. It is also a place to share tips and experiences with other working parents. We share lots of great info on our Facebook page also, and we even have a small Facebook group dedicated to discussing these things in more detail.
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Sherene Abrahams is a mother and the creator of The Working Parents Hub. You can follow the site on Facebook.
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Margaret Kelly Hall
11/15/2017 08:29:06 am

Good for you! Nicely done.

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